I didn’t see much of Tom but when Danny and I got engaged, we had a party and, at one stage Tom and I were alone in the kitchen. He acted like he was meeting me for the first time. I smiled at him and gave him a look that, I hoped, said, ‘let’s keep this a secret’. We locked eyes and I knew that he knew who I was We went to his mum’s for dinner and as soon as I walked in, there was Tom. He’d told me he had a girlfriend, so he made it quite clear our night together wasn’t going to go any further and I didn’t mind, I was just looking for a fun night. It was probably the best sex I’d ever had. I guess it was a kind of silent agreement that it was a one night fling only. We had an amazing night together but, the next day we didn’t exchange numbers. There’s a secret I’ve been keeping for years and only one person knows about itĪt a friend’s 30th I met a gorgeous guy, he was quite shy but we had a few laughs, a few drinks and ended back at my apartment. And Danny’s left eye is slightly ‘squinty’ but, from a distance, it’s difficult to say who is who. There are a couple of very subtle physical differences that you only notice when you’ve spent time with both of them – for starters Tom’s nose is slightly misshapen due to a football accident. My husband is very loud, some people think he’s obnoxious and you’re lucky if you can get a word in at all. He speaks softly, doesn’t like being the centre of attention and he’s a great listener. My husband Danny is an absolute extrovert while his twin is the opposite, the introvert. Once you get talking to them you realise who is who.

It doesn’t help that they dress in a similar way, have the same hairstyle and the same hair colour.

Even their own mother mixes them up from time to time. Most people can’t tell my husband Danny and his brother Tom apart.

Wife had one night stand